Thanks for the replys. Excellent point, BlueSwede. I agree with your "one size fits all" take. Perhaps I phrased the question wrong. I was looking for the traits that a great lover possesses. Perhaps I shouldn't have mentioned "World's Greatest Lover". I was just looking for a little more creative way to phrase the question to get the answers I was looking for. I loved your "different wavelengths" theory. That's one that's new to me and one I haven't ever considered before. I feel I learned something.