Congratulations I hope this will be a magical night that you will remember for the rest of your life.

My only advice is use protection and don’t hold back. If this is someone that you really love then let your heart and soul guide you. Don’t be concerned about the “end result or the climax”. This is not a contest to see who can please who first. Making love is “emotion in motion” (Mae West). The secret to good love making is to relax and enjoy the intimacy instead of the physical act. The mind is the largest sexual organ of the body, stimulate the mind and the body will respond. When two or more (well you may not be ready for that yet) people’s souls connect on an emotional level the bodies can’t help but derive pleasure while giving pleasure. What I am trying to say is just go with what feels right don’t be afraid to tell him where to touch you and also don’t be afraid to ask him what he likes. If you can communicate with out judgment or fear off hurting each others feelings, then you will do just fine.

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Mind what poeple do not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Terry Goodkind, Wizzards Fifth Rule

There are two things a real man likes--danger and play;and he likes woman because she is the most dangerous of playthings.
Nietzsche


Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony