I think a lot of people here, use Pixies to keep themselves sexually charged as well.
This may seem like an odd concept, but there is so much sexual energy in this place, that you can draw from it. for example you'll notice that a lot of flirting goes on here and while most of us are not constantly fantasising about sex with people from Pixies (although obviously I'm fantasising about Fussy, Aqua, Skip, dicksbro, T-S etc etc pretty much constantly
) it helps to make us feel sexy and gets our heart rate up a little at times, and we feel the benefit of that with our partners.
Even if our partners aren't active members, things which are discussed on Pixies can help to open up a discussion about sex with our partners allowing us to explore other avenues of our sexuality which stop sex from becoming boring.
As for having time for it: You find time to go to the bathroom in even the busiest day I'm sure. You probably rarely miss a meal. Sex is a physical need (just ask some of those people here who've been without it for a while) not a luxury and that stops people feeling like they haven't got time for it.
One last thing: if you don't want more sex than you're having and nor does you spouse, then where's the problem. Don't feel you HAVE to have a lot of sex just because some others on here do. There's nothing worse than having sex because you feel you ought to.
Casper - And you thought YOURS was a thesis! LMAO x