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Originally posted by girls_rule
In a relatively new relationship where your discovering each other having non-stop sex is great, but then life just seems to get in the way and it’s hard to find the time, energy or mainly the desire to have sex all the time.
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I think a lot of people here use sex as a way of getting away from the stresses of life. Orgasms are fantastic stress relievers!
Also, I think it might seem as though everyone here is thinking of sex all the time, but in reality a lot of us have our mood swings and a bit of sexual roller-coaster. But because so many people post here, it can seem as though everyone's horny.
I masturbate at least once a day - that's just what my libido is, typically. Maybe it's a male thing, I don't know.
And I think many people here have found that you can live without sex fine when you haven't had it for a long time, but the more you get the more you tend to want lol. Of course, it's an individual thing though.
And lastly, I think a lot of people even though they've been in long term relationships for some time, still want to keep the spark alive and sex is just one way of helping maintain that spiritual, emotional and physical attachment. Sure, we're busy people in this modern day and age, and we don't always have the time for a fourteen hour sex marathon. But if we never take time how can we ever have time? Some couples might schedule some 'quality time' for an hour or two on a Friday night, others might settle for a quickie when they can get it, some people might spend all evening several times a week for sex. And some people never have sex at all. Life's like that. Everyone's different, and every lifestyle has it's own challenges and advantages.
And then some people like skipthisone are just dirty pervs lol
Well, as always I've written a damn thesis when a few paragraphs woulda been enough. Oh well.
Hope I've helped, and if I haven't, hope someone found it worth reading.
CasperTG