I agree with alot that has already been said here. Having an understanding partner that you can trust and be open with goes a long way in someone's ability to be "adventurous" sexually. Someone early said that after being in a long-term relationship their no list became a we'll see list. That's a great thing. There will always be things that you're not comfortable with and that's OK, but try to be stay open minded enough to at least entertain any ideas/actions that your long-term partner wants to try. If you try it once and don't like it then that's fair enough, but if it doesn't hurt anyone else give it a try. Of course that's easy for me to say, my husband is a straight and narrow kinda guy and has never asked for anything even remotely kinky...but I know I'd try just about anything he wanted.