I agree with alot of what has already been posted, but feel the need to add my thoughts on this....In my experience I was sexually inhibited in quite a few areas. Unfortunately I didn't have an understanding partner that allowed me the time to get comfortable with new situations...I was automatically boxed in and made to feel that once I said no to something if I changed my mind I was a hypocrite or maybe I had had too much to drink etc...He didn't allow me to grow or change. Hence my philosophy of never saying never, lest you get put into a category that you may not want to stay in....

Fast forward to present...very open and understanding partner, who accepts my hesitations and revels in my exploration of my own comfort levels. I am able to be me and do whatever I am comfortable with at the moment and that is allowed to change from day to day. I am free to try new things and to love them or not. Although I have to admit that the "not" hasn't yet happened . I do believe that confidence is a huge factor in what you are comfortable with sexually. Also a trusting relationship is a great help. Knowing that you can express how you feel in certain situations and that it is okay leaves room for growth and change.

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Never say never, but if you do it's okay to change your mind~me, I think