<~~~~ is a former prude herself. I had a "no list" as we used to call it. It contained many of the same things Cabrylla mentions and probably a few more. For me, maturity, self awareness, and being in a trusting long term relationship allowed me some wiggle room to slowly try out some of the things on that list....when I was ready. Now my "no list" is my "we'll see list". There is no sense doing anything you are uncomfortable with because you may just come to resent it and sex is supposed to be about pleasure. Of course I can only comment on my experience and everyone is unique!

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