[Prude- A person who makes an affected display of modesty and propriety, esp. in matters relating to sex.]

That is NOT what I’m seeing Cabrylla, even with my limited knowledge of you. If “others” have chose to set “their” values of propriety on you, I feel “they” need to reconsider who may be the prude.

First I DO want to plead that you permit this thread to remain. It gives ALL of us an opportunity for self examination which is one of Pixies most positive principles.

Youth, Experiences, and Maturity are very relative and subjective words. The point I see is that you have decided this is not the time for you to explore specific options. I applaud you for not being pressed into something that is NOT comfortable or appealing to you. A VERY WONDERFUL aspect of relations is the continued additions of fulfilling desires and pleasures.

Chronologically, we are far apart, and I have addressed areas that just do not appeal or even repulse me. My “experience” is that at the right time, many new areas have brought me pleasure that previously weren’t attractions. I personally feel I would have done myself an injustice to FORCE something just because I became aware of it.

The old adage of “All good things in due time” did work for me in sexual matters. Don’t miss any of what you have your hands on now (so to speak ) looking ahead.




(Just one perspective)

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