Certainly got some replies on that one didn't we. Alright, well Lilith, I'm not sure what you mean by "scening" but this is something I picked up when I started w/ Paladin, I had never really paid a lot of thought to it because with my ex fiancee...well she was a Taurus through and through and never really went for different kinds of sex. I tried a little s=m with her, we had a cat-o-nine tails and a little belt play, but that was it and she was uncomfortable. When she left and I found Pal. we found we had a shared interest and so we proceeded to look into it. He's the best dom I know, very consciencous of my bounds and limits, and hasn't pushed me past them. He seems to have an uncanny sense of what I can and can't handle. As for why the weapons turn me on...I really couldn't say. I enjoy being submissive in most situations and an agressor who will take charge and tell me what to do..well hell I just melt (unless I'm told not to ) In most cases, I NEVER indulge in this kind of play with males since I have been with women and will always prefer them. Pal. trancended some boundry and got to where most men don't because I get very nervous and very uncomfortable with men;mainly for the same reasons that a dom woman will turn me on..they are stronger, faster, harder, or any -er than I am and I will lose whatever I try to do. with women I just handle myself better and many of my friends and mates have been stunned by the fact that I am involved at ALL with something that has a prick and it doesn't strap on! *shrug* Who am I to explain human sexuality. It's just a shifting scale. I seem to have run out of intelligent responses...so we'll see what everyone has to say to that

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And the clouds parted and God said-
"I hate you Molly."
And I picked up my pentacle and my lr sniper rifle and said-
"Ya know God..."