Naughtyeddie, I knew what you meant when you were referring to "rape." However, I agree with Loulabelle that even if at first you don't feel like making love, if you change your mind and do get turned on by what is happening, so to speak, it may be roleplaying rape but isn't really rape. Believe me, when you're really raped, you in no way, shape, or form want the act to take place.

Thanks, Loulabelle, for the kind remarks. Strangely enough, about the only time I ever have nightmares about what happened anymore is when I am in stressful situations in which I feel I have no control over what is happening, situations that have nothing to do with sex but may be things involving finances or my job or my kids. The exceptions are what I mentioned earlier--the name calling, etc.

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