By the time this was part of our “special event” activities, we were pretty familiar with each others “tastes” about things. I use to have a pair of large diameter satin drapery-tie-backs that proved to make a large enough knot to really grab. Neckties have been a fun choice the ladies seem to enjoy. Stockings were an exciting surprise for me the first time and guess what she used to blindfold me with?

I found that a single distant candle behind me that only provided shadows was fun when the blindfold wasn’t used. Had to set a card in front to reduces even that one candle power enough.

(Pleasant) Surprise being a focus for me, I found that needed to set this up and try different things before hand. Review AFTERWARDS helps add ideas but this is one area that “developing” it together looses something.

[found that a chilling effect can be added when a blindfold is used and AFTER it’s in place, get a towel covering a few ice cubes]

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