I'm definitely the exception to what's been posted. Back when I cybered a lot, I didn't want to get to know anybody. If I did end up having conversations w/some of the people, we usually ended up being on line friends (still have some such friends I talk w/on line daily), and once we started to get to know each other, I didn't want to cyber w/them anymore. But my reasons for doing such were rather unique or, let's say, unusual circumstances. Ironically, in spite of the fact that I am in a LDR with my fiance, we don't have cyber sex; we just IM each other.

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