I generally don't mind being PMed for an "off to the side" private chat about some topic -- ANY topic -- but these guys who buzz me for a PM and the first thing they say is a/s/l REALLY irritates me. My name should be enough to give a strong educated guess on my sex. What the heck is the difference where I am located??? Age might matter, but getting to know me on some level would tell you more at the emotional age I act upon, rather than my physical age.

I was having cyber sex long before almost anybody else was. I started in 1986! I enjoy it, but it's NOT like the real thing at all. I would much rather have a written story that I can come back to later, or one I wrote and have multiple people enjoy it than just one.