What grabs my attention at first...I can't help but to glance at his hands and forearms. Don't know why... then the eyes do it for me. Across a room however, I have a tendency to look at the whole person... the way he walks, holds his head, smiles.... then it is the aura of the man. Personality, ability to communicate, attitude... stuff like that.

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