My wife has thrown me a courtesy fuck now and then when she is not really in “the mood”. But it is nothing like I snap my fingers and say “bend over bitch”. If she doesn’t want to fool around we don’t. But sometimes she senses my need and gives me a little when she would prefer not to. However this has gone both ways, I have not felt up it a couple of times, and still put out because she needed me. I think a little give and take is just part of a normal relationship. I mean it’s not like anyone is physically forcing the other do something they don’t want to. Physical rape is wrong in ANY case. NO means NO.

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Mind what poeple do not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Terry Goodkind, Wizzards Fifth Rule

There are two things a real man likes--danger and play;and he likes woman because she is the most dangerous of playthings.
Nietzsche


Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony