i dunno if it's just me, but i think alot of the lurkers are probably intimidated by what is said here. i made an account to read the posts and stuff, but i never said anything on this site until i had done more than just kiss...even then i'm still a virgin and ALOT of the posts i feel that i have no right in responding to since what right does a virgin have telling some experience person their thoughts on sex? i mostly read and respond to posts like this...