to a certain extent yes~~~~~but when having to be in control is a major part of your life, having someone to share it with is so good! Sometimes I feel like I have no control over parts of my life and am waiting on the "adults" to come and make it better~~~~~~then I realise that I am the adult!!!!!
My lover,partner,best friend helps me to feel that I have the strength to be in control of "me"~~and knowing that I have an amazing net -work of friends and family helps too!

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Don't pet the sweaty things!!!!