I'm *JUST* under 6" long and a little on the slim side of average. Because my wife is so tiny, she says if I was any bigger I'd tear her apart. I already have to be careful or I'll go too deep and hit her cervix. So with that in mind I'd like to be either right at or a little over 6" but I wish I was really thick. My wife has brought up the fact that a previous lover of hers was nearly as thick as a soda can which makes me jealous as hell so I'd like to be the biggest she's ever had, I'm already the best ;-)