One thing you have to remember. The anus is not self lubricating like a vagina. Depending upon your position, put more lube on your penis as you go in and around her anus.

Sharniqua's advice about using a syringe and injecting some lube into the anus is a good idea. This may help.

We also really try to stay away from water based lubes and use Eros or something similar. The water based lubes tend to get sticky and need more fluid to stay slippery.

Also, I don't know if she uses an enema prior to you guys trying anal. Tell her to not to, sometimes the enema will irritate the lining and cause the burning sensation.

Another suggestion. Use a condom (not one with sperm killer). That will allow the lube to stay slick rather than being absorbed by your skin...... just some suggestions.

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