Steve, my S/O and I have been in a similar situation, at first I too thought it was my fault that he could not cum inside me which only added to his stress because he didn't want me to feel that way. Open communication is very important and I'm glad you have that...all of the above suggestions are great and may help. If she would like to talk to another female that has been in her position or if you'd like to ask me anything specific, please feel free to contact me, I'll help in whatever fashion I can *hugs*

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