Yes..one does affect the other.

Speaking from experience here, I allowed another woman to join in the bedroom activities with my EX husband and I (notice the EX)...while I enjoyed some aspects of the encounter, I found myself hurt and in the living room crying while the two of them carried on. The whole experience made me feel like I was not enough for him.

While this was not the sole reason for the end of our marriage, I had a very hard time feeling wanted and desireable after the incident.

Not sure if this makes any sense....just my 2 cents worth.


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