Dude, it's all about the bling-bling...
diamonds, gold, goldcard, whatever.
Nothin shows a chick you care more than
a pretty green portrait of Ben Franklin!!!!!!

Ok ok, I'll TRY to be serious for a minute.
Drop the whole subject, at least for now.
Lots of underlying stuff here...issues of trust,
questions of loyalty, fear of hurt or being hurt.
I bet, somewhere deep down inside worries that
your "fantasy" could someday escalate to, perhaps,
you wanting another woman in the bedroom. She
may be worried that it would be a bit of vindictiveness
on your part...getting back at her. Christ, I don't know...
women are complicated as hell!!!!!!!!!!! Just lay
low for a while...it's good that you're communicating,
but sounds like LOTS of other not-so-fun issues need
to be resolved.

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