Jenna sweetie -

A few months ago I remember seeing your posts around and about the place and I swear they were pretty much interchangeable with my own! We both had the same problem: we are intelligent, attractive (yeah I've seen your face pic, so I know what I'm talking about!) thoughtful, discerning women. The things is there are lots of single guys out there but not many of them are good enough for a woman like you and you know that - that's why you're single.

The reason I draw your attention to our similiarities as people. is that I have a suspicion that you will find a partner the same way I did: when you least expect it and from the most unlikely source.

Believe it or not, it was I who first PMed Fussy - not because I was in lust with his pictures or I'd been particularly moved by some response he'd had to mine, but because at that precise moment, when I saw him surfing Pixies I felt lonely and wanted to reach out to someone. We became good friends - best friends in a way that probably none of the other people at Pixies were aware for the first few months and eventually it grew into something more - in fact it still is growing.

And that really is the way it happens....because when you are talking to someone because you enjoy their company and have fun with them you are not worrying about how you appear to them all the time.....you are more yourself and when you are yourself, that's when a person is going to fall for you.

Don't think too much about the future. Don't worry that the guy isn't 'Mr Right' as sometimes Mr Right can be different from what you thought you wanted.

And on a lighter note - in the profile - if I were you I'd flirt a little more! I know you're intelligent and want someone to be serious, but you have to make sure people know you're sexy and fun too.

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