Sanctuary---What OldFart says is exactly right.I have been married for 36yrs. and have two daughters;so I know of;the
need for women;to feel desireable!You don't need to have
intercourse but at least show them;that you have a sexual need
(desire)for them.Face facts.If you don't show a physical attraction
for them,they are going to go elsewhere.You asked for help and
even if it hurts;you have to respect; their feelings; also.This is just
my take on the subject.I am 57 and OldFart is no kid.I think that
between the two of us that we;probably have enough experience
to know what we're talking about. Irish

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(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)