A lot of guys on the site I work for tend to visit profiles of the women who are online at that moment - they don't want to waste their time/money/energy on someone who hasn't been on the system in a while, you know what I mean?

If I were you jenna, I'd pick a site and visit it at a good time - 8 p.m. - 10 p.m. especially 8 p.m. - 10 p.m.