Thank you MontereyGirl for your once again very helpful advice.

I am sorry that I didn't express my feelings more clearly in my previous reply but I agree with your opposition towards engaging ourselves in such activities at this time. I know that we will not be ready for something like that for quite some time. I say "we" because I myself have some issues with seeing some other man be with her. Although my issues are not quite as serious as her's, I refuse to do anything potentially dangerous as this until all issues are resolved for both of us.

I love my wife very much. She is the air that I breathe and the blood that fills my body. I know that we will be together for the rest of our lives and that the most important thing right now is to concentrate on building and strengthen our relationship.

Thank you once again MontereyGirl for your advice and your blessings. I have no doubt that pixies has gained a very valuable member.