alot of people don't live in the D/s lifestyle and are rather "vanilla" in life...but that doesn't mean people don't enjoy it behind bedroom doors *grinz* it's always worth a try and if you don't enjoy it then you can always say you tried.......and I agree with Casper...a safe word is key...

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