www.lavalife.com has a section for meeting people looking for the same thing (not an endorsement, in fact I never used it). Nerve.com has great personals that are very reasonable, and many women check "Play" as one of their dating options.

If you live in a dense enough metropolitan area, make an ad (at match.com, yahooo, whatever), with a good picture, and be very clear about what you want. Run it for a weekend (Friday through Monday), work it as much as possible by answering as many ads as possible, and you should get some reaction.

I have had great success with match.com, finding someone who is very compatible, and she's also hot! Before finding her, I had many dates, some which ended in bed, some which could have been longer term f**k buddy freindships.

It's a numbers game.

It also sounds like you should be a student of Leykis 101 www.blowmeuptom.com

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