BigBear: I sympathize with you (been there...), and I don't mean to hijack your thread; I'm tryin' to keep it on-topic.

I have never had a great experience with a counselor, but it seems like a third-person opinion might help you understand what she is not saying, and help her understand what you're not hearing. Until you both take a step up in understanding, the relationship will slowly drain with each exchange.

And Kyttn, I just think you need a spankin'

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