Holy smokes, I didn't mean to incite a heated genderal debate. I was in essence just hoping for the kind of thing Jenna and Sn offered. Truth is, the question wasn't really what does she mean, it should have been am I tired enough to turn away. I was exasperated and angry. We've gotten back on track, but oddly enough with no answers to speak of. I'm not an argumentive person, I was trying to make sense of a sudden drastic change..... logic is NOT my friend sometimes. Nothing simply meant she was dealing with a lot and wasn't in any shape to cope and discuss it with me because she knew I'd freak.... sometimes those damn trees just get in the way.

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