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Originally posted by BamaKyttn
You must be confused, Seriousfun. maybe you're raised to fix objects, but it's harder to fix people. I was raised by my dad and can fix a car, or damn near anything else but I know when to shut up......at least when it comes to real life, in here I probably talk too much.
Sit there and take what? my bitching, complaining groaning and bellyacheing? damn right. but of course I am one helluva scary bitch...... most people don't cross me >)
it's not like I'm swinging with a baseball bat.
Kyttn
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Yes, I am confused. Often!
It might or might not be harder to fix people than objects. People can be fixed with a look, a touch, a smell, even a thought.
My own personal philosophy, however, is that we can't fix anything or anyone except by living our life the way we want the world to be.
Men feel things deeper, and longer, than women. Controversial? Every study on the subject supports this. The yak yak yak at us about everything, coupled with the bitterness when our attempts to respond in the way that we are taught and wired, chips away at any relationship. Women often forget that they are in a 2-way, not a 1-way, relationship and what you put out into the universe (whether in love or war) comes right back atcha, tenfold.
It took me too many years to figure out that a man who sits there and takes the bitching, complaining groaning and bellyacheing is never respected by a woman. And a woman who dishes this out without thinking of the consequences is never respected. We have to use these tools for good, not evil.
And, swing away, Kyttn, I'm not afraid of you!