Thanks, guys. Sweet, I know exactly what you mean. We've been patient and understanding but when I read your post it made me think of all the men I know who say they cheat because their wives hate sex.

We all know the stereotype. Men like sex more than women (hey! it seems to me more women are frequent posters to pixies than men - do we have stats on that?).

When do people cheat on their sig. other? When do people know that the 'spark' isn't coming back?