BigBear...

Just ask her... sit with her.. take her out to dinner... have dinner waiting for her at home.. with some candles lit.. open a bottle of bubbly... and SHARE with her.... just get the ball rolling... be open and honest... about your feelings... about you sensing that she is ill at ease with something on her mind... encourage her to share it with you in a non-threatening manner.. and I am certain that she will...

HUGS