Thanks PF and Jenna. I think I may have stumbled on a possibility here. I've never really mentioned posting to her but for no reason in general, hell I used my longtime nic. Could it be that my meanderings about past experiences have caused uncertainty? She was the one who told me about Pixies. So it's a good chance she's seen but why not just say "Hey you dumbass, I don't like you saying stuff like that" I may be grabbing at straws too.

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