Hi Iggysgirl welcome to Pixies hope you enjoy yourself. Your ex by doing that had control. Now that you're not his you can think and do for you. From what you say it sounds like you are very open minded and your bf is all so. Talk to him remove all doubt in yourself and lose your ex's close mind. If it pleases you go for it, and sometime it is good to be a dirty slut.

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