My spouse will get on this kick from time to time where she want all the pleasure. she just kind of lays back and lets me do all the work she just sokes up all the fun. Now dont get me wrong I really enjoy bringing her off, but I think it should be fair play. She needs to take a more active role and be the aggressor more often.

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Mind what poeple do not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie.
Terry Goodkind, Wizzards Fifth Rule

There are two things a real man likes--danger and play;and he likes woman because she is the most dangerous of playthings.
Nietzsche


Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony