I dated a nurse sometime ago who told me she loved oral sex. So I'd oblige with pleasure only to see her fighting climax and when she did get off she'd act all frustrated. I asked why and she just said "it's a power thing" I'd much rather think my partner was enjoying me instead of holding a competiton of wills. It takes all kinds I guess.

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