My heart goes out to you as one LDR person to another. My fiance and I have been in this now for 2 years and hope to finally be together permanently this summer. He isn't in this country at present, and we rarely are able to have phone contact. I do recall from another LDR years ago that when I'd get really sexually frustrated, I'd call him and say, "Baby, will you please talk me through an orgasm?" He loved it, and I became so conditioned to his voice, that I could easily come just from the sound of his voice, no touching necessary. It was a great asset even when we WERE together to be able to respond to his voice like that.

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Communication is the key.