Well, well, well . . . I'm a frequent poster here but lately, the sex gods have been working against me and my guy. I know a lot of people here are in long-term relationships and must experience times in their lives when sex isn't happening . . . as some of you know, T and I work opposite shifts - I'm still in bed when he leaves for work and when I get home from work he's struggling to stay awake to say hello . . .

Anyway, he spent a week visiting family around Valentine's Day. When he came back, we were facing house problems with no water and no heat . . . the stress was too much for me to think about sex. After Simon and Garfunkel's beautiful opening to the Grammys, I realized it was that time of the month and it was one of those cycles where I don't want any . . .

So . . . . . we're packing for a move AGAIN (granted, it's just a few blocks away but a move's a move!) and it looks like we might be going almost a month without any nookie!

What's the longest time you've been without sex with your s/o? And why? What was it like when you got back together?