I went through a situation just like this. Although I'm not near the right person to ask, you asked and so I'll offer advice. I find that in most cases, you can only respect yourself more if you can sit down and talk about things. It helps the situation in most cases because you're clearing the air of all confusion, and getting your feelings into the open. Most girls can respect that. (I think, but you better ask a girl before you quote me on that. ) I am the kind of person that when I feel that something needs to be talked about, I'm open, and completely brutally honest with the person I'm talking to. (I've learned to respect myself more for that, since I first started it.) Anyways- Like I was saying, Talk about it, and afterwords, let me know how it went. I'm rootin' for yas!

Sincerely,
-XXXCHIX



***In other news, Nice "Lord of the Rings" reference about Lil.
I was kinda lol about it.