I have a friend who is sick she was just diagnosed with non hodgeskins lymphoma a couple of months ago but she is doing really well. I know she needs some advice so I am asking here for her. She has been with someone for a couple of years and she hasn't told him anything about what she has been dealing with. Actually, she has only told a couple of people and doesn't want many to know. She has been really irritable and very emotional lately and rightly so and it has been pretty difficult for her. The problem is the person she is seeing broke it off with her a few weeks ago and she has been feeling even worse. Now if she tells him about this she won't know if he would be with her again because he feels bad for her or if he really cares for her. I thought maybe I can get some advice for her from the nice people at pixies. I know she really cares about him and I think he does care about her too. Should she tell him or not? If she tells him he might feel like he has to pretend he cares or he really might care but she doesn't want to make him feel that he has to be with her out of pity or whatever. What would any of you do? I told her I would ask.

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Missy