I wonder iif she left it for you to find on purpose. Either consciously or subconsciously she may be sharing with bro. Tell her you previewed a tape she had and see what reaction you get. Hopefully you're close enough that if it was an accident she will forgive you.

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours