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Originally posted by Lilith

and not all men want a woman who waits on them hand and foot I don't think........I think both men and women want someone who is responsive to their needs but not to the point of being mindless.

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Lilith! You don't live in Pa. Dutch Country! ALL THE MEN (true Dutchies) expect their wives ( as they only marry....never just live with a woman....and procreation is the primary reason) to be subservient! They never took it out of the wedding vows and the women "vow" to it! "Do you promise to love, honor and obey ________ as long as ye both shall live"? I swear, it's true! Most couples have to go to "marriage classes" around here in order to get a minister to marry them! Just to make sure SHE knows her place in this marriage!

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If you want to be submissive, controlled, etc...... you need a woman who is 100% comfortable with you in that position. My guess is most women are not.

Did any of that make sense??????

It all made sense!!!!! You are wiser than you know! Never doubt that!

As to the question at hand..............Once one has the power.......it goes to his/her head......and the spiral downfall begins. Ever truly believe in someone in power (the President of the US for example) and slowly watch him misuse his (ill-begotten) sense of all knowing? As Lilith so wisely stated.......a person has to be secure in his/her power over you to make it work! When you think you have the world by it's tail with all that power......be it a relationship or serving as the Pres. of the US....et. al......that's when the shit hits the fan.

If you don't want to be shit on......don't give someone the power to do so! No one is better than another (unless the other is a serial killer for example...and you are not.....LOL!) If you put a person you are in a relationship with.....high up on a pedastal......you'll have to look up all the time....and quite possibly get shit on (as they are above you and gravity is the law of the earth)!