There is a saying.... "The mind sees what it wants to see, but the heart sees what the heart sees" (Ahhh Babylon 5 was the BEST show ever).... Anyone ever see Shallow Hal? This thread is sorta like that... I never saw the movie but its certainly seems funny... I mean... to my most women don't have flaws... they have "beauty inhancing traits"... a friend of mine is quiet and has a slight lisp... but I had a crush on her awhile ago... heh... she is also plump... which is fine... I mean I don't personally like a woman as big (or bigger) then I am... so a medium girl is just right.