As for the rest, for the record:

1 - Yes

2 - Yes

3 - Yes

4 - Yes...but don't give it back.

5 - Yes...I've been sharing my girlfriend for years.

6 - Yes, but only side by side. One using the front while the other uses the back would be very awkward.

7 & 8 - Yes

Pantyhose - Not sure they'd want it. lol

Bubblebath - Sure...what the hell? Why not? But I probably won't shampoo his hair for him.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.