I discount the kind of relationships that don't have mutually respectful interactions and consideration of true boundaries. Hard limits, per se. I guess I was curious as to whether or not this was a hard limit for many guys. I know it's a common fantasy for guys to want to see their s/o engage in same sex intimacy, so I wondered how willing men are to reciprocate.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.