Hello all...I am 40 yr old male...Have a SO for about 18yrs...Finally realized that there is more to life then what I was living so starting to push my/our boundaries...Look forward to reading peoples thots and ideas and hav a sounding board for some of my thots...My SO doesnt know about this yet and she is the technical one so pics and icons and quick responses may be unavailable but I feel happy to b here