Well, he puts stuff off because he can't make a decision to save his life. So stuff builds up. Then when I come in and straighten things out...he complains that I spent too much money. Ya can't have it both ways! You either look like a hero for not spending any money (while letting things go to hell) or you look like a hero for having things taken care of (while being over budget).

If he knew how to budget, he wouldn't have near as much explaining to do! lol

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.