Until you rid yourself of your good-guy image, you're out of the game.

You have to get her to see you as sexy and exciting, thus desirable.

This will only happen when she sees you with other women having

the greatest fun, maybe kicking off a jealousy thing.

Distance yourself from her just a little, find a great girlfriend, stop obsessing

and maybe the new girlfriend'll emotionally wipe the floor with her.

Even if she doesn't, you're in a worthwhile relationship which has to be better

than the dependable wallflower approach.

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