Hi Souls,

I think your original question was how long sould you wait before getting with a family member of an ex.
I think the family member is a separate issue - the real question is how long should you wait after a breakup before getting with anyone. I'm a big fan of saying "Screw that!" to the rules, and doing what feels right and seems sensible.
What do you want from this girl? A relationship? A brief fling? A one-night stand? Be careful that anything you want is not just a rebound thing - unless you're only interested in a one-night stand or a fling, and both of you know that.

So how long should you wait? A week? ten days? A coupla hours??

It's up to you! It'll depend on the intensity of your previous relationship, the terms that you ended it on, how you feel about the family member (is it just a physical thing? emotional?) etc etc
These are all questions only you can answer, and it's a matter of making your own judgement.

Good luck souls, let us know what (if anything) happens!

CasperTG

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